Since the beginning of 2013, and the start of this semester, I have never felt more the gift and power of family. My partner's mother was diagnosed with stage IV cancer. We planned a wedding for two weeks out. Then my brother-in-law lost his father (Don), brother (Philip) and nephew (Izzy) to a tragic car accident.
It would have been Don's anniversary on February 1st.
The funeral for all three was on February 2nd.
My wedding was on February 3rd.
The loss of these lives is truly tragic but mostly it is not real yet. I keep thinking I will see Don soon.
On the other hand, my own mother-in-law's cancer is very real. Yesterday she began losing her hair. She has had fevers the last two days. The family is trying to stay one step ahead of cancer and the treatments but really we are all scrambling to catch up and clipping each others' heels.
To end everything, my wedding was beautiful. I have never been more surrounded by gratitude for life, family and friends. This is all I have to share as it has consumed my days and thoughts for the past few weeks.
I appreciate the support and patience from the program, my work & internship during all of this. Although I do not enjoy relishing in the grief, I do view each of these events as a part of life. I wonder, how will this make me a better sister, daughter, wife, mother, friend and social worker in the world...
Amy, I have to say again how much I admire you for how you are walking through all of these events in life - you are setting a fine example for me. I would imagine that with your tenacity and fortitude, you will indeed become an even better person to all of those you love, and in your work as a social worker. My heart goes out to you and your family.
ReplyDelete<3 <3 <3 And I am so happy I got to be a part of your wedding, if only in a part of your dress. You have my number. We all have your back. <3 <3 <3
ReplyDeleteAmy I just wanted to let you know that I hope the family can heal from these difficult times. The way in which you continue on is amazing. When you stated you have never felt more the gift and power of family I really see you turning the most difficult of times into an opportunity to charish love, life and family. Your strengh is unlimited.
ReplyDeleteI also can't stress how important family is in life, although this could perhaps be because I have had very good experiences with them. I have observed many clients who do not feel the same way, as thier experiences have differed. But where I work, we often say that we have somewhat of a new family in recovery. Anyways, I am so glad about your wedding, everyones wedding should be a magical day, hearing that renews my faith in the goodness of the world.
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